“It’s taboo to admit that you’re lonely. You can make jokes about it, of course. You can tell people that you spend most of your time with Netflix or that you haven’t left the house today and you might not even go outside tomorrow. But rarely do you ever tell people about the true depths of your loneliness, about how you feel more and more alienated from your friends each passing day and you’re not sure how to fix it. It seems like everyone is just better at living than you are. A part of you knew this was going to happen. Growing up, you just had this feeling that you wouldn’t transition well to adult life, that you’d fall right through the cracks. And look at you now, it’s happening.”
hey. don’t cry. crush two cloves of garlic into a pot with a dollop of olive oil and stir until golden then add one can of crushed tomatoes a bit of balsamic vinegar half a tablespoon of brown sugar half a cup of grated parmesan cheese and stir for a few minutes adding a handful of fresh spinach until wilted and mix in pasta of your choice ok?
Look, I’m disabled so I know how frustrating it can be when your body is just not up to the ritual you spent a lot of time planning and tweaking. Or perhaps you are simply a busy person who needs quick, easy workings you can fit into your day.
Here are some suggestions:
Color Magick (Color coordinating outfits is a fun way to do this)
Spell Bottles
Jewelry Enchantment/Charging
Breath Work
Candle Magick
Knot Magick (Try weaving a braided cord or bracelet to wear)
Sound Cleansing/healing
Sigils
Petitions
Manifestation Boxes
Verbal Incantations & Blessings
Affirmations
Anointing (Can be done with a perfume oil blessed by you)
10 minutes meditation
Simple Divination (Tarot/Oracle, Runes, Pendulum)
5 minutes of mindfulness (Take 5 minutes to breathe, think about where you are and appreciate any good happening)
Mending Magick (A little magick in each stitch)
Daily Glamour (To go along with any self-care or beauty ritual)
Kathryn Paige… @ May 27, 2021 My 6-year-old, working on a bead design: “Do you want to help me?”
My 8-year-old: “Yes. Do you want me to follow your directions, or give ideas?”
My proposition: All academic collaborations would be improved by having this *exact* conversation.
Dr. Andrew Lynn
@AndrewCLynn
Replying to @kph3k
All relationships in general! I heard from a friend recently that, when their partner is upset and/or venting, they ask, “do you need support or advice?”
9:34 PM May 27, 2021
Philip Eath… @ea… May 29, 2021 Replying to @AndrewCLynn and @kph3k
My first instinct is to offer solutions, and so often people just want to be heard. This is a great dynamic for not frustrating the other person.
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